there is literally nothing a man who I am not attracted to in any shape or form can do to make me want him
I hate this idea that there are tips and tricks to getting women like the fact that you have to essentially deceive and disguise yourself in order for someone to like you is sf scary and weird to me
it also reinforces the idea that when a woman says no she means convince me or continue to try different things
like wtf that’s scary and violent thinking
I see this shit perpetuated in so many narratives within movies, television it’s scary af
and there are men who think this shit is normal that scares me
people seriously think that you can just leave an abusive relationship, like walk out and it’s over
let’s talk about how one-third of women murdered every year are by an intimate partner. let’s talk about how a woman leaving her batterer is seventy-five percent more likely to be killed.
note to women: not all men are rapists but don’t dress like a whore and be responsible for your actions because all men are rapists
This is the only thing boys on the internet care about at the end of the day
They give no fucks about sexism, all they want is to be assured that it’s only ”a tiny fraction of men” that is the problem, that they are not part of it, and therefore they don’t have to question anything about themselves.
The one thing that only matter to males…never taking responsibility for their shitty, oppressive behavior, or critically analyzing their own privileged position in society and sense of entitlement, and of course always word- and tone-policing women and invading feminist and womanist spaces, *and* never calling out their male friends and other guys for their misogynistic behavior because misogyny is also a form of male bonding.
(Source: onionsoupdisco, via wretchedoftheearth)
A catcall is entirely about reminding you that you are not yours. The purity myth is entirely about reminding you that you are not yours. The fetishization of female purity in a world where catcalls are an acceptable form of communication telegraphs one thing very clearly:
“Women, stop sexualizing yourselves—that’s our job, and you’re taking all the fun out of it.”
The sexualization of women is only appealing if it’s nonconsensual. Otherwise it’s “sluttiness,” and sluttiness is agency and agency is threatening.
- women don’t exist for the sole purpose of being beautiful for men
- women don’t exist for the consumption by men
- women don’t exist to fuckin please you
- women are not meat
- women are not items
- women are not a commodity
- thanks bye
(Source: princesslilitu, via wretchedoftheearth)
|Patriarchy:||Well you're probably ugly then
|Patriarchy:||You mean unattractive right?
|Woman:||I have all these incredible accomplishments
|Patriarchy:||Yeah but look how ugly you looked doing them
|Woman:||I have value
|Patriarchy:||Not if you're ugly lol
|Woman:||I'm conventionally-attractive & posted selfies on my blog
|Patriarchy:||I'm so sick of these empty-headed chicks only caring about their looks. Just because you are attractive and get attention from men doesn't mean you are special or deserve respect. Why don't you read a book or do something productive with your life you dumb slut
It’s so weird when people are squeamish about seeing brains because that’s their own brain making a decision that it looks disgusting. Brains don’t like how they look.
self conscious brains aww
"I’d like to raise both of my middle fingers to him and anyone who thinks profanity is somehow more harmful to our children than images of violence and misogyny."
other guy codes
- “laid back” = let’s me make all the decisions
- “low maintenance” = doesn’t expect me to remember her birthday
- “smart/educated” = but not smarter than i am
- “funny” = but not funnier than i am
- “successful/accomplished” = but doesn’t make more $ than I do
- “career-oriented” = but just until we are married/have kids
"On Periods: Let’s put this shit to bed right now: Women don’t lose their minds when they have period-related irritability. It doesn’t lower their ability to reason; it lowers their patience and, hence, tolerance for bullshit. If an issue comes up a lot during “that time of the month,” that doesn’t mean she only cares about it once a month; it means she’s bothered by it all the time and lacks the capacity, once a month, to shove it down and bury it beneath six gulps of willful silence."